A Night of Firsts

I spent 2 hours on the phone tonight with TurboTax’s online help. Apparently, when I filed my taxes 2 weeks ago, the IRS rejected my e-file. TurboTax told me what to do to fix the problem and I took the necessary measures, except that when I tried to log into my account none of my information was saved and therefore I couldn’t take the final step. TWO HOURS on the phone with customer service and I got pretty much nowhere. I’m going to H&R Block tomorrow.

It was almost 9:00 when I got off the phone with those people. Dave was out with a friend so I had no one to bitch to. Not only was I starving, I was frustrated, annoyed and in need of a drink. It isn’t so happening where I live, most places close at 9:00 unless you go downtown and I wasn’t in the mood to go very far. The only option was fast food, Beef O Brady’s or Applebee’s. I wasn’t in the mood for wings and I only eat Taco Bell at 3am when I’m drunk, so I headed over to Applebee’s. By myself.

I’ve never gone to a restaurant alone before. I’m socially awkward. I don’t like being by myself in public places. I’m not one of those people that can go to a bar by herself, sit down, have a drink, and start mingling with people. I freak out. I’ve accepted this a long time ago. But for some reason tonight the thought of me going alone sounded appealing. I was fine with it. I put on my coat and headed out there.

I sat down at my table for one, the smallest table in the place tucked all the way in the back. I wanted a drink, and something different. I ordered a Pomegranate Margarita. That sounded good. The server gave me a Pomegranate Martini instead. I didn’t say anything. I never ordered a martini before. The only time I’ve ever had one was when I took a sip of my mothers dry gin martini that reminded me of rubbing alcohol, but I wanted to try something new right? I took a sip expecting it to be strong and nasty, but to my surprise it tasted good.

Two firsts in one night. I’m making strides people. I might even consider doing this again.

4 Responses to “A Night of Firsts”

  1. Angela DiLisio says:

    That sounds good. I usually order a perfect strawberry martini. It comes in a shaker and it makes nearly three drinks from the one shaker, but don’t order this when you have to drive cause it hits you fast.

  2. Ari says:

    Oh wow you are my hero! I’ve been wanting to visit a bar by myself but I’m nervous. And pomegranate martini huh? Sounds interesting…

  3. Juliana says:

    good girl! i’m not much of a drinker, so i don’t frequent bars alone, but i do eat out and go to the movies alone fairly often. it’s nice, i think.

  4. Taryn says:

    Thanks for visiting my blog! I’ve been reading yours today, and I love this post! Mostly because I can TOTALLY relate. I am socially awkward! Props to you for going out alone. And great choice, their pomegranate martini is amazing!!

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